In this sanctuary of Transformative Tides, we embrace a collective journey where each voice ripples with purpose and every shared moment nurtures our evolving community. Our agreements are our compass, gently guiding how we connect and honor both our togetherness and our individual spaces. These are our community agreements:

Refrain from Advice-Giving (Unless Invited)
We’re not here to fix or prescribe a path. Instead, we lean into the unfolding of each moment, offering presence and reverence without judgment.

Seeking Consent
In every exchange, we honor each person’s space by asking for permission first. Just as we’d make sure to get clear permission before any physical contact in face-to-face interactions. Similarly, in our online environment, we treat the emotional landscape with care, recognizing that we might unintentionally touch on sensitive areas. Before engaging in any one-on-one conversations, like direct messages or emails, we’ll always check in to ensure everyone is comfortable.

Confidentiality & Discernment
The stories we share are sacred. We protect the names and journeys of others by centering our own experiences, knowing that while complete secrecy may be elusive, our commitment to mindful discretion is unwavering.

Revelatory Speech
We choose to speak from the source of our own hearts, offering personal truth rather than directing how others should feel or act. Our words are our own, intended to illuminate rather than instruct, insult, attack, or harass.  

Deep Listening
Listening becomes an intimate act of witnessing—each attentive ear helps reveal the layered wisdom embedded within every conversation. By being fully present and mindful of keeping our microphones muted while others are speaking, we unearth the insights that connect us all.

Restraint & Humility
Like the natural ripening of a fruit, we allow our thoughts and emotions the time they need to mature. This practice anchors us in humility, encouraging contributions that grow from deep respect and the nurturing soil of our community.

Not Knowing
We honor the profound mystery held within each personal journey, cherishing the beautiful unpredictability of one another’s experiences. Embracing not knowing opens our hearts to unexpected insights and gentle surprises.

Letting Go
In our shared voyage, we learn the art of releasing control, pride, and entitlement. By letting go, we accept our transient nature while remaining devoted to the collective journey that fosters both individual growth and shared harmony.

Navigating Conflict with Compassion
Should a boundary be crossed, we invite a dialogue rooted in gentleness and sincerity. Through honest conversation and empathetic listening, we work to heal any rifts and restore balance in our shared space.

Living Agreements
Our agreements are ever-evolving, a living reflection of our growth. We periodically return to them, refining our guidelines to honor the dynamic needs of our community and ensure they remain true to our mutual evolution.

Inclusivity in Language
Every voice deserves to be celebrated. We commit to using polite and considerate language that embraces the richness of all experiences. If our words ever fall short, we welcome insights and suggestions that allow us to continue evolving together.

Each of these principles is both a commitment and an invitation to grow—a shared journey where every ripple contributes to the expansive, transformative tide of our community.